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ivy · Groupie Joined: 17 Jul 2007 Posts: 322

So, how can you tell the difference between lust and love Question

Here are some tips to help you sort things out.

IT'S LUST IF:

You're Totally Focused on Her Looks and Body
Even before you know her name, you're already fantasising about what she looks like , naked and what it would be like to have sex with her.

You Dont Care About Anything She Has to Say
It wouldnt make a difference to you. If you never had a conversation with her. Furthermore, you dont bother to return her calls promptly and you can easily go for days without talking to her- until you get horny again.

You Only Want to be With Her to Have sex
You make excuses not to spend time with her , except for sex. And if she asks your for a favour , you tell her you're too busy. But if you have to be with her and not have sex, she gets on your nerves and you find yourself fantasising about other women.

She's Your Midnight Companion
After you go out trolling for tail with your buddies on Friday night, you then call her at 1 am fir sine drunken action.

IT"S LOVE IF :

You HAve Great Chemistry
You get last in your conversations and the hours pass like minutes. You're more than willing to listen to her when she talks about her day. The chemistry between you is remarkable.

You Find Her Beautiful
Even if you catch her with no make up on and her hair pulled back while she's unclagging a toilet, she still looks beautiful to you.

You Want to Spend Time With Her
All you want to do is to be with her, even if she tells you that sex will have to wait, you dont care.

You See A Future Together
You experience the strange feeling that your life would be totally empty without her. You tell your friends and family that she may be " The One" , and you're even thinking about marrying her.

You Introduce Her to Your Family
It becomes very important to you that your parents like her, and that she gets along with everyone close to you

You Include Her in All your plans
Whether you're going out with your male friends or taking your dog for a walk, you want her there with you. And if she's not there , you cant get her off your mind and sneak off to give her a quick " I miss you" phone call.

You Are More romantic
All of sudden you find yourself listening to cheesy romamtic songs and thinking of her. You send her flowers and love notes to work and set up romamtic evernings candlelight dinners at home.

You Always Take her side
If someone says something even slightly disparaging about her, you immediately rise to her defence. Furthermorein social gatherings, you always agree with her even if you disagree behind closed doors.

She Makes you want to be a Better MAn
She challenges and motivates you . She makes you happy and you'd do anything to make her happy.

Brother in Law · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 4:16 pm Post subject:

Substitue the he for she, and she for he.... there are two sexes in the World and they both have the same thoughts but not necessarily the same thinking process.... this may be male orientated but women in their own way are just as bad Shocked

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Pat's brother-in-law

ShaDzTeR · Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 10:17 am Post subject:

I disagree with the focusing at looks part in the lust section. Also disagree with the seeing a future with her part in the love section. That is over planning, I think.

The others are logical, sensible and practical, not to mention scientifically approved. haha.

*sigh* Been listening to melancholic and cheesy ballads nowadays like MLTR or Savage Garden. Oopss!! LOL!!!
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