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zulPutrajaya · Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 9:20 am Post subject: A Sad Mothers Day..

That Sunday started as normal as any sunday. Woke up around 7.30am and switch on my Astro.. lo and behold an ads about mothers day comes out.. Alamak forgot to call my mom... immediately call my mom..

"Hi mak.... Happy mothers day...buat apa tu... beli roti canai?" that was some of the words. I don't normally bought anything for her on mothers day ( supporting Martin quest of not to support anything being commercialize) lol. But i make it a point to call her very early in the morning... you see.. my parents is such a morning person. By 7 they always done with their morning jog, top of by a spot of roti canai and hot tea at the warong.. (defeat the purpose of the jog i might say... eating a very heavy bfast lol)

I am so happy to be their son. I know I am not a perfect son. I am not worthy being their son. But I have been good to them all this while. I am not a mat rempit, drug addict etc. Did pretty ok in school. bla bla bla..

By 6pm that day I had finish all my house chore. cooked up a storm in the kitchen (spaghetti with black pepper) my invention... i think..

than my mom call.... "along.. bad news..." my heart just dropped.. i knew what the next line will be. "mak ngah just past away"..

I was in the state of disbelief. Mak Ngah was my aunt. My family are very close to all of our "in laws" family. I regard my mak ngah as my mom too.
and on this mother day she is gone to a better place... I quickly pack my beg.. then my phone rings again.. one of my mak ngah daughter calling.. "along... " that was the only thing i heard between her sobs...

by 11pm I already reach my hometown. I was speeding all the way.. 150kmph was the average speed. yet when I am closer to the house.. I was driving so slow... almost did want arrive at my destination, as if I was expecting the reality will not set in if I am not there.

Arriving at my Mak Ngah house.... the first thing is to hug my pak ngah... Never did that before but i think he need it. He was consoling me.. funny.. I am the one who should doing that.. but my tears just flow. .. quite freely i might add... hmmm i never cry that hard before. but i don't care.. this is not the time to hold back.. I lost a very important person in my life.

Then i saw my mom... Oh how i am happy to see her. she look pale and distraught. SHe has been crying... I hug her so hard...kiss her cheek.. and said I love you so much...

The rest of the two days was sombre and sad.. yet I am happy that after all that happen we are closer as a family unit than ever.. Thanks Mak ngah for all the things you have done for me.. all the love.. all the cooking you did for me... everything... rest in peace....

to my mom...love you so much... thanks for everything
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Brother in Law · Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 2:20 pm Post subject:

... condolences Zul. You need family at this time, and you seem to have that one sorted... Sad

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zulPutrajaya · Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 2:37 pm Post subject:

thanks martin....you guys also my family laaaa.... and if i never said this before.. to pat, mag, arthur, martin, z, cash, pam, mandy and all..... I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH!!! thanks for being a friend to me
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mar · Fanatic Joined: 23 Apr 2008 Posts: 233 Location: Brunei

Sorry to hear about your loss Zul...May Her soul rest in peace...
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Pam · Extremist Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 1020 Location: Sibu

My deepest sympathy, Zul. May her soul rest in peace. Do take care my friend.
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ReginaC · Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 12:41 am Post subject:

Zul, you are truly blessed to have such a loving family.