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PostPosted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 2:14 pm    Post subject: The Silence is deafening... Reply with quote

Okay guys, the silence is deafening.... come out, come out, wherever you are Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 3:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi everyone! Howz everybody doing? All good, I hope?

As for me, I was down with the funky virus that's been going around. I was flat out and felt half dead for almost two weeks (that was how bad it was), and yup, even missed out on celebrating Valentine's Day AND my anniversary. But I'm getting better and feeling a lot more human now so it's all good.

As for Cash's absence ... well, he's kinda in a hard place right now, having to juggle his time with taking care of his bedridden mom and his nephew and going out to earn a living. 2009 hasn't given him a nice clean start so he might be MIA for a while. So to those who have his number, maybe you guys could hit him up with a message or some words of encouragement or something... I know for sure that it would cheer him up.
He's kinda in a dark place at the moment and any kind of moral support that he gets from the family would surely make a huge difference. Thanx ya'll.

Take care.
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 10:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I'm round and always around!!!

Poor Cash...I hope things will turn out well for him. I know how hard it is to take care of a bedridden mum as I've to do that too...but only in the morning when Bea's at school. It takes a great part of our lives away. At least, my mum's healthy...just can't walk.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 12:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, Cash isn't as lucky. He's now taking care of his mom (her food, taking her to the bathroom, washing her, etc) plus he also has to take care of his two year old nephew (his food, making sure that he gets his milk on time, bathe him, clean him, etc) all on his own, with no help from anyone. And on top of that, he can only go out and do his job after both his mom and nephew have gone to sleep and then rush back home again in the morning before the jam starts so that he'd be home in time before his nephew gets up for his morning milk. Like I said, things are a bit rough for Cash at the moment.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 10:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

oh dear, that's really bad... when does he get his rest? Smile

is there anything we can do to help him?
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 11:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well Mag, other than hooking him up with a live in nanny or nurse, I don't think there's much that we can do. Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's tough! Early 2008 when my mum was hospitalised for chronic depression, the only sleep I got was in snatches...everytime she dozed off...and that was only for a while each time. I was exhausted and came down with shingles... Poor Cash! I do pray things will get better for him.
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To be very honest, he didn't sound too good last I spoke to him a couple of days ago Sad
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 8:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is there nothing that can be done to help the poor guy Question Question Question Exclamation Exclamation
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 9:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah... there must be stgh we can do right? what about his sister? cant she help him? Confused Sad
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What's a 'baysitter' cost Question Question
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

His sister? Well, let's just say that she's the cause of all the problems. Look, I can't really get into all the details as this involve some delicate family matters. All I can say here is that he has his hands full with looking after his mom and nephew, which had resulted in putting him in a very difficult situation to go out and earn a living. Money is really tight, he hasn't been getting enough sleep, plus he has to worry about all the bills that's been piling up. You guys get the picture now?
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

relax relax zee... sorry we had to ask you so many questions, Sad and I guess we understand a little more now... :wink Razz
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 12:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh dear, I'm so sorry for Cash. Can I help with the bills, Zee? I can't give much but a little is better than nothing.

Zee, sorry to hear you've been very sick. Hope you're feeling better now. Smile
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Pam, that is so sweet of you to offer to help Cash with some of his problems. I have contacted him for the details that you had asked for and once I get the details that you need, I'll pass it on to you. You're a good friend and a kind soul, Pam Smile

And Mag, you know how close Cash and I are, right? So when things like this happen, it really saddens me.

To all who have been asking and who have been concerned about Cash's situation, on behalf of him, I thank all of ya'll. You guys rock! Smile Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 10:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know how you feel Zee... and the thing is I feel really bad too that I'm helpless on this side too... there's one thing I learn is that sometimes ppl dont like to be helped unless they ask for it... Smile so you know where to find me if he needs anything ya Wink Razz
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 4:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks Mag Smile
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

no worries babe! Razz

to our dear CASHIE BOY... WE LOVE YOU & WE ARE HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED ANYTHING! Razz Smile
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm here if not so very near!! Let us know if you want help Cash - from what I hear you've helpeed everybody else so what comes around goes around!!!!
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

isnt it WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND? :p
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